Deal your friend dating your crush
It might be kind of uncomfortable, but it will be what’s best for both of you at the end of the day.One of the quickest ways to kill a forming relationship is to force it.No matter how the conversation goes, you’re going to be okay. It’s better to air out your feelings than to avoid telling the one person to whom these feelings will matter the most. “I was worried about something, said something to his friend and then it got muddled and the next thing I knew, it was break time.It makes things REALLY convoluted and shouldn't be a thing.” Listen to Megan and just be straightforward with your crush; let them know what you’re thinking and feeling.Sometimes this can end well, but generally it seems like it can only be bad news, especially because it might make your crush wonder why you didn’t just go to him or her in the first place.
so she is lining up a replacement dude while she hangs out with you and drives you crazy.
She obviously doesn’t feel attracted to you enough to be WITH you…
all while she gives all her attention to ANOTHER GUY. I’m going to give you 4 steps to turn things around… so you’ll be my distraction until I find something better” Ouch.
Going to your crush’s friends just makes this even more awkward if your crush truly isn’t ready for a relationship. Telling your crush’s friends how you feel and trying to get them involved could result in them telling your crush about your feelings in a time or way you don’t like.
By involving their friends, you give them the opportunity to control your situation.